‘What is your definition of perfection?’ I dare ask. We use the word in our daily discussions with people; friends, colleagues, family, celebrities and strangers across the road. Wow, she has a perfect life, how lucky she must be! Take a look at him; he has the perfect car, perfect house,...
Dear God, I woke up today feeling positive about life. This was amazing since I had been too focused on the negative events happening in my life. However, the news of the demise of my friend’s mother still weighed heavily on my mind. How could I console her when my...
I bet we have asked ourselves this question a couple of times or been on the receiving end of it. And we are quick to reply with a sullen thank you when people tell us it will get better despite the doubts that plague us. While I truly do not know the answer...
On my wedding day, my aunt had called me aside and told me my husband was the god I saw on earth, so he should be honored. In my mind begged the question “If husbands were the gods we saw on earth, was mine a mistake?”
If you are in search of inspiration, you just hit gold. Born on January 2nd, 1988, Amanda Lynn Harvey is an American songwriter, singer and motivational speaker. Mandy developed hearing problems as a child and had several unsuccessful surgeries to correct it. However, she didn’t allow it to affect her...
I think it is natural as humans to hold on because of the fear of starting over. Letting go becomes more difficult when we consider the hurt it may cause to those we care about. Letting go is often equated to defeat or lack of effort which is why we...
I remember that day like it was yesterday. The day I received the unbelievable news that shattered my world, brought it all crashing...
On today’s category of Talent feature, we showcase this amazing piece on the struggle with bad habits: There’s a monster I harbour within,...
I read an article on the online platform, Elite Daily which when loosely summarised said, “Your dating standards get lower as you get...
I had a friend growing up. She was super intelligent, and it was not shocking to see the many accolades she received for...
Our first date was on a Saturday five months ago. I remember this because I came back from the date with Emmanuel miserable...
There was something about her that made everyone – including me – stare, transfixed as she walked by. Some would say she was...
I am someone who has always turned to writing to make sense of things. Especially the parts of life that feel confusing, heavy or quietly complicated.
I write about mental health, relationships, identity, faith, and the in-between seasons we often move through without much language. Most of what you will find here comes from lived experience, observation, and a habit of sitting with thoughts a little longer than most people do.
I do not write because I have the answers. I write because it helps me understand myself, other people and the world around me. Writing gives me the space to slow down and to say things honestly, without needing to tidy them up. Some of what I write is still in the process of becoming, and I am comfortable letting it be that way.
Thoughts on Ink is where those reflections live. If you are drawn to writing that feels thoughtful, unhurried and real, I am glad you are here.
